Oh boy. This next one left me shaking my head. Not because the guy I was talking to is horrible and still is horrible, but the fact that so many women and female subs have made it so easy for this type of men to think it is easy to get away from it.
So on one of my forays into Okcupid, there was this German guy who started talking to me.
We started talking about work. Which went like this:
German Guy: I worked at (realistic company). How about you?
Me: Oh Yeah. I work at a (company).
German Guy: Cool.
Me: So what do you do in your spare time?
German Guy: I work out. Hang out with friends. What about you?
We went back and forth and then migrated to Whats App.
From there the conversation went like this:
German Guy: Hey it’s me. Happy New Year! How are you darling?
Me: Not too bad. How about yourself?
German Guy: I’m on my way to (insert Hotel here). Will call you when I reach.
Me: Ok Sure.
This made me raise my eyebrow. Why mention a hotel plus saying you will call me with out telling me in advance that you were coming? So I just let it be and went about my day. The guy obviously didn’t call.
The next time I hear from him, he called my phone.
German Guy: “Hey sweetie! I wanted to hear what you sound like.
Me: Well now you know. How well do you speak German?
German Guy: Obviously very well.
Me: Cool. I’ve been learning German for a bit.
German Guy: Wow, say something in German for me.
Me: Ich spreche kein Deutsch sehr gut
German Guy: *laughs* Don’t bite me she said!
Me: Yeah my German isn’t very good. But anyway it’s late I got to go.
German Guy: OK. Good night sweetie.
Major red flag there. He doesn’t know German. Obviously not a German then. What next proceeded was a lot of pictures of him nude… Which I deleted. So obviously this guy is trying to get me to fall for him, as hard as he can. As well as faking to be something he isn’t. He has not offered to help me improve my German nor correct my pronunciation at least or even tell me I was saying it wrong. Anyone would want to help correct another person who is learning their language.
More photos of him arrive, but this time of him hanging out with his friends. By this time I’m thinking the pictures are not of him, but probably taken from some poor soul’s computer or using his friend’s photos instead. I didn’t bother to image search them. Just deleted them. They didn’t match the photo on his profile on OkCupid anyway. Major red flag as well.
So I decided to see how far this would go. We’ve been talking a while and mostly it is like this :
German Guy: How are you darling?
Me: Good. How are you? Working today?
German Guy: I’m good. Just finished work and now at home chilling on Netflix.
Me: Cool. Nice shows to watch?
German Guy: Yeah nice show to watch. I’m coming down and will arrive on Wednesday 4:30pm.
Me: Cool, I’ll take some leave and show you around.
So I checked. No flights arriving on Wednesday to here from his location. What a big fat liar. I didn’t bother to take leave. Just text him on whats app asking where is he and which terminal he is at. No reply from him at all.
This happened two more times. After which when he tried for a fourth time…
German Guy: Hey I’m coming down on Monday will reach 4:30pm
Me: Sure. It’s a holiday that day, so I can show you around. Why not take the 11 am flight? Will have more time to hang out with you then.
German Guy: But it will only reach at 4:30pm.
Me: It’s only an hour flight.
German Guy: Can you help me? I haven’t gotten my pay check yet, so can you lend me some money?
Me: There is no such thing as pay check. Companies transfer your pay into your bank account. And always on time as well.
German Guy: I seriously need the money. My company has not given me my pay check.
Me: No. You’re not German, you don’t work at (company here) and they always pay their employees on time, the flights to here are only an hour and are in the mornings and evenings, none in the afternoon, and you are nothing more then a scammer.
He tried to call me but I blocked him.
Wow, so that was what he was after. Money. Plus his approached was so obviously weak. Could see it a mile away that he was no good. Plus ignoring some of my statements and hoping I would forget his botched attempts at making me think he would actually come here was a big laugh. It was way too easy to check up on some of the facts he gave me.
Also reported him on OkCupid on what he did and the conversations I had with him. Hopefully he gets banned on OkCupid. But so far he is still going around scamming a lot of females. So better watch out for this guy! He might have changed from German to English man though since I caught him on that.